4UrKids: 5 Steps to YouTube Safety

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YouTube is an enormous resource, there is no question about it. The Google-owned company is growing at a rapid pace and has become one of those content giants we cannot ignore. In fact, YouTube published a video saying that every second, 1 hour of video is being uploaded to YouTube. In a rather humorous way, they have released a video about it with some other interesting metrics. This unimaginable figure means that a decade of videos is being uploaded every day!

It takes no genius to understand that with so many videos, no online company/service as huge as it might be, can adequately filter or correctly catalogue the vast amount of content being uploaded.

YouTube is much like Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde — it has its good and bad sides. This tool can be extremely useful and “YouTube” is the name that comes to mind as THE key player in the democratization of videos. However, upon entering the YouTube ‘twilight zone’, one may discover bad (very bad) things, which are exposed to all of us… including our kids.

In this twilight zone, it’s easy to find videos that teach kids how to develop anorexic disorders, how to cut themselves and hide it from adults, and even how to commit suicide.

5 Easy Steps to YouTube Safety

Parents: there is no golden formula, but here are 4 easy steps you can take to help keep your children safe on YouTube:

#1.  Get savvy: There is no way around this. Your first step is to go to YouTube and see for yourself. Open an account, create your favorite list, and see how easy it is to search for videos. Once you do that, you are in a better position to have a far more open and informed discussion with your children. Position yourself in their eyes as someone “in the know”.

#2.  Use the Safety Mode: At the bottom of every YouTube page, you can check a “Safety Mode” box that filters your search results.

Totlol blog image 2When Safety Mode is on, you’ll get fewer inappropriate results when you search for videos. Again, please remember that this feature, though effective, is not 100% accurate and does not guarantee that all inappropriate material will be filtered out.

Youtube privacy settings#3.  Use Privacy Settings: YouTube allows videos to be shared with anyone or a limited audience of your choosing. If your child is just learning to use YouTube, you may wish to have all videos categorized as “unlisted” or even “private”.  The “private” setting allows you to select the people who can view the video,  while “unlisted” videos can be viewed by anyone who has the URL (web address). These options can be found on each individual video’s “edit” screen.

Totlol blog image 1#4.  Pay attention: What would you do if a bully was harassing your kids? You’d take action to stop the harassment, right? Well, it’s the same thing here — only this potential bully is bigger, more aggressive and comes straight into your home. Make sure your kids know online safety rules. Work with them to help protect their identities. Tell them to pay attention when uploading videos to protect their privacy. I’m all about self-expression, but believe it’s important to remind them that not-too-long from now when they’re interviewing for a job, the video they uploaded will likely appear during their potential employer’s background checking process. A terrific recent example of how quickly images can go “viral” involved a 5th grade teacher who wanted to demonstrate that very concept to her students… and proving her point, her photo (on the right) received tens of thousands of shares and over 4 million likes.

#5.  Communicate: Personal safety is something we all need to be careful about in all venues of life, and in this era where children are ‘digital natives’, we have a responsibility to start teaching online safety while they are young. It’s not just one conversation, it’s a continuous dialog that adapts to the rapid changes we are experiencing today.

Working WITH your children to keep them safe on YouTube and other social media venues will do nothing but benefit them in the long run. It’s time well spent.

About Tiffany

Totlol CEO Tiffany StelmanTiffany Stelman is the co-founder and CEO of TotlolTotlol provides a platform for kids to watch their favorite videos online where all videos are filtered and moderated by a community of parents, ensuring that inappropriate content is blocked. With the help of parents, Totlol delivers age-appropriate videos in a child-friendly environment. Learn more about keeping children safe online by visiting Totlol’s Blog.



About Ginger

Chance and GK 2013-04-26Raising awareness of the world-wide epidemic of child abuse has become Ginger’s life mission. An impassioned child advocate, trainer, speaker and trained child forensic interviewer, Ginger regularly blogs about child protection issues. Along with her husband John and pets Lexi and Chase, Ginger enjoys traveling, skiing, hiking, brisk mornings, colorful sunsets and just hangin’ at home with “the Pack”.


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4 thoughts on “4UrKids: 5 Steps to YouTube Safety

  1. I am glad that you pointed out that YouTube can be enriching as well as endangering. I am an author who teaches writing to children, and I often use YouTube videos as prompts. My own daughter is a popular YouTube actress and singer, Laineylips, and she is very mindful of her young audience as she creates her own content and acts in the shows produced by other popular channels, such as the kid-friendly Awesomenesstv. You can now find channels created for kids just as you do on cable TV. The the main point is to keep sharing what your kids are watching and reading and listening to, rather than allowing media to babysit and guide your kids.

    1. Well stated, Susan! Parents need to be engaged in what their children are doing online… there’s just now way around that fact if we want to keep our kids safe. Thanks for sharing — it’s nice to hear from you.


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